Consensual Bliss

BDSM / Kink / Alt Sex

Be Different. Be You.

I pride myself on having been part of the kink and BDSM community for a long time. Whatever society or the media might portray it as, we know that kink and BDSM require the utmost intelligence, consent, and communication skills.

Breaking hard limits is never okay. But, slightly pushing boundaries and knowing when and where to stop, is what separates a master from a novice.

I work with clients that have a wide variety of kinks and fetishes. In my personal life, I have also experienced and enjoyed several of these. I don’t know all by any means, but I do understand and identify as part of the community.

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Kink / BDSM / Alt Sex counselling with me usually falls in one of two categories. Our work together usually tends to either focus more on the psychosexual issues (such as anxiety, fear, self-esteem issues, or healing from broken boundaries), or on more practical matters.

Types of practical questions I’m asked commonly include:

How can I find out why my hard limits are without getting hurt?
Is it okay to want to sub sometimes if I’m usually the dom?
How do I negotiate a BDSM contract?
How do I make sure my sub feels safe during after-play?
How do I dominate someone who’s very strong-willed?
How do I tell my dom I want to submit outside of sex as well?
How do I let go of my inhibitions at home, but still be independent in the rest of my life?
What’s the difference between humiliation and degradation?
Why do I want to be cuckolded/hurt/strapped down/etc.?
I love kink and BDSM, but I lose my erection. Why?
What are the rules around safe words?
How can I explain what I want from a play session?
If I want to do [insert act here], does it mean I’m broken?
How can I stay safe when I …. ?
How can I handle situations with multiple partners (without chems)?

Whatever your kink or fetish, whichever flavours you prefer, I welcome all doms and subs, puppies and ponies, brats and tamers, girls and mommies, boys and daddies, sadists and masochists, misters and mistresses, owners and pets, masters and slaves, voyeurs and exhibitionists, or singles and switches.

Please give me a call or text if you’d like more information, or feel free to schedule a Free Initial Consultation.